If you are one of those
guys who dread asking a girl out for a date, here’s all to make it absurdly
simple.
For some, to ask a girl out equals
winning a Congressional token of honor for spilling the guts out. They say,
all you have to do is ask, but it still can be a really frightening experience
for those of us who are shy or nervous when exposed to such social environment.
Even the best of us fail to get the desired girl to say ‘yes’, don’t we? The
key is to strike the rod when it’s hot.
Prepare
Before you can put the proposal in front of her, you must prepare to do so, and
here is exactly how:
Know Her
You cannot directly hop on your shoes and ask a woman whom you’ve come across
only yesterday to an evening date. First, you will have to charm her and be the
one she would like to go out with and to be able to do that, you have to make
sure that you know her well enough. So, get started; figure out what it is that
interests her, what kind of people she is interested in, what it is that she
wishes to do in the future, etc.
[Read: How to Charm a Girl and Flatter Her to Like You]
Find out if She’s
Interested
To get to impress a girl, you have to first know her and to go on a date with
her, you have to find out if she’s interested in you. Does she make eye contacts
with you often when you are in a hall pulled apart by a crowd of people? Does
she smile at you when she is with her friends? It is wise for a man to keep his
feelings to himself and not make it so obvious at least until he is sure the
girl wants things to wheel ahead.
Make her Think about you
before She Sleeps
If you are hopeful of building intimacy, talking to her at night is the best
time. Start texting her from time to time in the evenings, and gradually start
calling her at night, but occasionally. Start talking to her about things that
interest her and she would with time warm up to you and look forward to having
conversations with you every night.
Win her Heart
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A girl who is really
interested in you will never say no to whatever you ask her. According to
Raymond Norma, author of Get the Girl you Want!: The Ultimate Guide, you can do
the following to win her over and make her affirm the date you have been
wanting to go to together.
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“Smile: girls are
extreme smile-addicts. A couple well-placed smiles, a good attitude, some
non-sexual jokes here and there and you can win a girl’s heart easier than a
handsome tall guy.”
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Maintain an appropriate
posture. “Don’t hunch! Look like you’re enjoying yourself no matter what you
are doing! Stand straight and sit up, no slouching! It shows that you are
strong, well trained. And it will make you taller, feel more like a man, which
is exactly what a woman wants”.
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“Be interesting! If you
have a passion for something, flaunt it! Here’s one universal rule: women find
passionate men very attractive. If you are passionate about anything, there’s a
damn good chance you’ll inject some emotional force into other aspects of your
life. It doesn't have to be anything sexual or even remotely feminine in
nature; you could be a gear-head, or maybe your passion is something like dog
walking. Don’t talk her ear off; just get a little animated, and get that
sparkle in your eye. She’ll notice, and she’ll want to learn more.”
Do not Hurry
You are sure you like her but what she feels for you is not something you can
assume and conclude. If you feel that all your efforts are likely to slip
because she does not reciprocate, do not be at your wit’s end just yet. When a
guy who likes a girl and wants to ask her out on a date feels that he has fewer
chances of getting what he wants, he ends up professing his love for the girl
without realizing that the girl may not as well be interested at all.
Therefore, approach her only when she shows signs that she likes you.
[Read: How to Attract a Woman’s Attention]
Asking your prospective girlfriend on a date may be one of the most
difficult tests you are up against. The good news is that you can get through
it very easily. With a “yes” from her, we mean.
