Showing posts with label Inspirational. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspirational. Show all posts

Wednesday, 3 June 2015

EDUCATION DOES NOT MEAN GOOD JUDGEMENT

There is a story about a man who sold hot dogs by the roadside. He was illiterate, so he never read newspapers . He was hard of hearing, so he never listened to the radio. His eyes were weak, so he never watched television. But enthusiastically, he sold lots of hot dogs. His sales and profit went up. He ordered more meat and got himself a bigger and a better stove. As his business was growing, the son, who had recently graduated from college, joined his father. Then something strange happened. The son asked, "Dad, aren't you aware of the great recession that is coming our way?" The father replied, "No, but tell me about it." The son said, "The international situation is terrible. The domestic is even worse. We should be prepared for the coming bad time." The man thought that since his son had been to college, read the papers, and listened to the radio, he ought to know and his advice should not be taken lightly. So the next day, the father cut down his order for the meat and buns, took down the sign and was no longer enthusiastic. Very soon, fewer and fewer people bothered to stop at his hot dog stand. And his sales started coming down rapidly. The father said to his son, "Son, you were right. We are in the middle of a recession. I am glad you warned me ahead of time."



What is the moral of the story?
1. Many times we confuse intelligence with good judgment.
2. A person may have high intelligence but poor judgment.
3. Choose your advisers carefully and use your judgment.
4. A person can and will be successful with or without formal education if they have the 5 Cs:
      ♦ character 
      ♦ commitment 
      ♦ conviction
      ♦ courtesy
      ♦ courage
 5. The tragedy is that there are many walking encyclopedias who are living failures.

Intelligence is quickness to leam. Ability is the skill to apply what is learned. Competence is the ability and the desire to apply what is learned. Desire is the attitude that makes a skillful person competent. Many skillful people are incompetent. Ability without the right attitude is wasted.

" The first duty of a university is to teach wisdom, not trade; character, not technicalities."
                                                                                                                               --Winston Churchill
Educated 
Whom, then, do I call educated?

 First, those who manage well the circumstances which they encounter day by day; and those who can judge situations appropriately as they arise and rarely miss the suitable course of action.
                                                                                                                                        Next, those who are honorable in their dealings with all men, bearing easily what is unpleasant or offensive in others, and being as reasonable with their associates as is humanly possible.
                                                                                                           Furthermore, those who hold their pleasures always under control and are not unduly overcome by their misfortunes, bearing up under them bravely and in a manner worthy of our common nature.
                                                                                                Most important of all, those who are not spoiled by their successes, who do not desert their true selves, but hold their ground steadfastly as wise and sober-minded men, rejoicing no more in the good things that have come to them through chance than in those which through their own nature and intelligence are theirs since birth.

" Those who have a character which is in accord, not with one of these things, but with all of them these are educated--possessed of all the virtues."

                                                                           --Socrates (47~399 B.C.)

 In a nutshell, educated persons are those who can choose wisely and courageously under any circumstances. If they have the ability to choose between wisdom and foolishness, between good and bad, between virtuousness and vulgarities, regardless of the academic degrees they have, then they are educated.
























Tuesday, 12 May 2015

About Yourself Thought's

Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.


There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.


Unlike a drop of water which loses its identity when it joins the ocean, man does not lose his being in the society in which he lives. Man's life is independent. He is born not for the development of the society alone, but for the development of his self.


There is no respect for others without humility in one's self.


Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do.


There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow men. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self.


Sometimes I wish that I could go into a time machine right now and just look at my self and say, 'Calm down. Things are gonna be fine. Things are gonna be all great. Just relax.'



Loving oneself isn't hard, when you understand who and what 'yourself' is. It has nothing to do with the shape of your face, the size of your eyes, the length of your hair or the quality of your clothes. It's so beyond all of those things and it's what gives life to everything about you. Your own self is such a treasure.


The greatest self is a peaceful smile, that always sees the world smiling back.


Loving oneself isn't hard, when you understand who and what 'yourself' is. It has nothing to do with the shape of your face, the size of your eyes, the length of your hair or the quality of your clothes. It's so beyond all of those things and it's what gives life to everything about you. Your own self is such a treasure.



Monday, 11 May 2015

Fake Friends vs. True Friends

A true friend doesn’t just talk of caring about you. They walk, rhumba and salsa their talk. They’re there when you need ‘em―and even when you say you don’t need ‘em―but really kinda do.

A true friend always tells you the truth―including the stuff you haven’t been truthful about yourself.

You feel safe to talk to them about serious things―or the most absolutely goofiest things.

Plus you can sit in silence with them and still feel understood.

A true friend roots for blessing to happen for you―and they do what they can to be one of your blessings.

Please feel free to share this message with your true friends—and let them know how much you appreciate them!

Thursday, 7 May 2015

cool life thoughts

Quote 1:  Winners don’t do different things, they do things differently.
In Hindi : जीतने वाले अलग चीजें नहीं करते, वो चीजों को  अलग तरह से करते हैं.
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Quote 2: Winners see the gain; losers see the pain.
In Hindi : जीतने वाले लाभ देखते हैं, हारने वाले दर्द.
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Quote 3:Under Adverse conditions – some people break down, some break records
In Hindi : विपरीत परस्थितियों में कुछ लोग टूट जाते हैं , तो कुछ लोग लोग रिकॉर्ड तोड़ते हैं.
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Quote 4:If you think you can – you can! If you think you cannot – you cannot! And either way……..you are right !”
In Hindi : अगर आप सोचते हैं कि आप कर सकते हैं-तो आप कर सकते हैं !अगर आप सोचते हैं कि आप नहीं कर सकते हैं- तो आप नहीं कर सकते हैं !और किसी भी तरह से …आप सही हैं.!
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Quote 5:Character building does not start when a child is born; it starts 100 years before when a child is born.
In Hindi : चरित्र का निर्माण तब नहीं शुरू होता जब बच्चा  पैदा होता है; ये बच्चे के पैदा होने के  सौ  साल पहले से शुरू हो जाता है.
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Quote 6:Justice is truth in action
In Hindi : सत्य का क्रियान्वन ही न्याय है.
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Quote 7:A nation does not become great by shouting slogans
In Hindi : एक देश नारे लगाने से महान नहीं बन जाता.
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Quote 8:The lack of a degree is actually an advantage. If you are an engineer or a doctor, there is only one job you can do. But if you don’t have a degree, you can do anything.
In Hindi : किसी डिग्री का ना होने दरअसल फायेदेमंद है. अगर आप इंजिनियर या डाक्टर हैं तब आप एक ही काम कर सकते हैं.पर यदि आपके पास कोई डिग्री नहीं है , तो आप कुछ भी कर सकते हैं.
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Quote 9:We don’t have business problems we have people problems.
In Hindi : हमारी बिजनेस से सम्बंधित समस्याएं नहीं होतीं , हमारी लोगों से सम्बंधित समस्याएं होती हैं.
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Quote 10:If we are not a part of the solution, then we are the problem


In Hindi : अगर हम हल का हिस्सा नहीं हैं, तो हम समस्या हैं.
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Quote 11:It is never the activity of rascals that destroys a society, but always the inactivity of the good people that does it.
In Hindi : कभी भी दुष्ट लोगों की सक्रियता समाज को बर्वाद नहीं करती, बल्कि हमेशा अच्छे लोगों की निष्क्रियता समाज को बर्वाद करती है.
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Quote 12:Whenever a person says I cannot do this he is really saying two things. Either I don’t know how to do it or I don’t want to do it.
In Hindi : जब कभी कोई व्यक्ति कहता है कि वो ये  नहीं कर सकता है , तो असल में वो दो चीजें कह रहा होता है. या तो मुझे पता नहीं है कि ये कैसे होगा या मैं इसे करना नहीं चाहता.
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Quote 13:Inspiration is thinking whereas motivation is action.
In Hindi : इन्स्पीरेशन  सोच  है जबकि मोटीवेशन कार्रवाई है.
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Quote 14:Self-esteem is inversely related to egos.
In Hindi : आत्म-सम्मान और अहंकार का उल्टा सम्बन्ध है.
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Quote 15:People don’t care how much you know they want to know how much you care.
In Hindi : लोग इसकी परवाह नहीं करते हैं कि आप कितना जानते हैं, वो ये जानना चाहते हैं कि आप कितना ख़याल रखते हैं.
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Quote 16:Good leaders look to create more leaders, bad leaders look to create followers.
In Hindi : अच्छे लीडर्स और लीडर्स बनाने की चेष्ठा करते हैं, बुरे लीडर्स और फालोवार्स बनाने की चेष्ठा करते हैं.
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Tuesday, 5 May 2015

About life


What inspires you? There are a lot of things that can provide inspiration – seeing other people accomplish great things, seeing other people overcome adversity, even the sheer beauty of nature can remind us just how lucky we are to be alive.


Monday, 27 April 2015

First Friendship

When we first talked to each other
I knew we would always be friends.
Our friendship has kept on growing
And I'll be here for you to the end.

You listen when I have a problem
And help dry the tears from my face.
You take away my sorrow
And put happiness in its place.

We can't forget the fun we've had
Laughing 'til our faces turn blue.
Talking of things only we find funny
People think we're insane-If they only knew!

I guess this is my way of saying thanks
For catching me when I fall.
Thanks once again for being such a good friend
And being here with me through it all.


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"Please don't get confused between my personality & my attitude My personality is who I am & my attitude depends on who you are!"


Sunday, 26 April 2015

There are good leaders who actively guide and bad leaders who actively misguide. Hence, leadership is about persuasion, presentation and people skills.
                                                                            Shiv Khera