How to Talk to Girls

Phone conversations are also considered the ideal informal setting for acquaintances to know each other without much pressure. It is important for a boy to learn the right way to talk over the phone so as to keep a girl interested at all times, but regrettably, several guys find it difficult to talk to a girl on the phone. The task is not as difficult as it is presumed by those who face fear.

There are no golden rules or secrets on how to talk to girls on the phone, though few of these tips will be handy for guys so that they don’t fumble while talking to a girl over the phone. Only thing you need to take care is to focus on the words you say and where you direct the conversation.

Instructions for Talking to a Girl

1. Beginning the Conversation: Your first step should be greeting her. Say hello, hi or hey to begin the conversation with. Thereafter, follow it by asking her about her day so far.

2. Calling on Purpose: There should be a purpose behind making the call. She will ask you for the reason to call up. Wasting her time by calling without a reason is a turn off.

3. Plan the Conversation: Plan it! It becomes quite easier to begin and stay in the conversation if you have an idea of going about it. Don’t presume all of it as most conversations don’t go as planned.

4. Listen Carefully: Give her a chance to say and listen. Listen carefully to what she says until she finishes. If you don’t have anything to contribute to the agenda you are in, just say ‘yeah’, ‘really’ and ‘okay’ to assure her that you are interested in the conversation.
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5. Smile: Smile often while communicating with a girl. It will reveal your cheerful side to her and also help you to attain an upbeat tone.

6. Your Attention Belongs to Her: While on phone with a girl, ensure that you are engaged in just one activity i.e. talking to her. Multitasking can distract you to lose track of the conversation. So, be attentive over the phone.

7. Follow-up Questions: Asking follow-up questions will keep your conversation alive. Don’t make a habit of questioning her on every single issue as that will annoy her at some point of time. She will feel that you are interviewing her instead of having a conversation. In addition to this, contribute your thoughts and ideas that are relevant to the discussion.

                

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