How to Balance Your Girlfriend and Friends

Balancing a romantic relationship and friendships is one of the common challenges faced by several men. Usually, in the early phase of your romantic relationship, the girlfriend will demand a larger share of your time and attention. Caught in the dilemma, you may sometimes feel that balancing the two is a complicated task.

You may feel for your friends, who were there for you in your happiness and sadness before you got into the relationship. Considering that you place credence in the fact that your friends will be there if something goes wrong you don’t want to mess up things because of your intimate relationship.

In such a situation, there isn’t any direct approach to balancing friends and girlfriend. Mentioned below are some tips to save you from widening differences with friends due to your girlfriend and keeping everyone happy.

Plan Things Together

Familiarise your girlfriend with your friends. She will foresee what friendship means to you. If you don’t make her meet your friends,  you may end up being asked ‘why are you embarrassed to introduce me to your friends?’ Keeping both parties apart will add to your woes and may make your girlfriend suspicious.

Give Girlfriend her Rights

Occasions such as Valentine's Day, her birthday and other significant anniversaries belong to her. You need to make your friends realise that there may be few days that will wholly belong to your girlfriend. Considering your happiness, they will happily accept it.

Manage Time

Balancing friendship and love won’t be a difficult task if you distribute time evenly for both parties. Don’t be laid-back to let it go as it comes. Manage things, plan for things in advance to keep both happy. This will also convey the message as to how much you care for them. It is completely up to you to plan and handle things, but make sure that your involvement with friends won’t put your relationship with your girlfriend at stake and vice-versa.

Pay Attention to Girlfriend/Friends

When you're with her, be with her. Similarly, when you are with pals, don’t neglect them. Your girlfriend will feel unwanted if you keep texting your friends while you are with her. Few dates won’t strengthen your relationship. Building relationship is a gradual process, which requires your every bit of attention.

Once you establish equilibrium between your girlfriend and your friends, you will be able to put a smile on everybody's face as well as yours.

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How do bees make honey?

The bee extracts the nectar from flowers through its long tube like tongue and stores it in its honey sac which contains the enzymes. After the honey bee returns to its hive, it passes the nectar to other workers bees which  keep on regurgitating it for further processing and then finally deposit it into the honey comb cells. After that the bees convert the viscous liquid into thick honey by fanning the honeycomb, which causes the water content to evaporate quickly. Finally, the cells containing honey are sealed with the bee wax.

Tips for Talking to a Guy on Phone

 Initially, you may find it difficult to talk to a guy on the phone. Talking about mutual liking or the things that are of interest to him will help you to carry a smooth conversation. Read the tips for talking to a guy on the phone and soon you will find yourself enjoying the chat. 







Spontaneous Conversation

Before calling your guy, spend a few minutes thinking about his interests. This will make it easy for you to continue the conversation. If he wants to talk about his favorite sport or a book, you should think of a couple of questions to prevent awkward silence from your side. Gather some information on his liking and work your way through the conversation so that it doesn't look calculated.

What to ask?

Once you have started the conversation and want to know more of him, restrain yourself from asking questions such as “Which is your favorite color or favorite food or favorite actor?”. These questions are common enough and would not interest your guy. Think out of the box and come out with some innovative as well as interesting questions, such as “What are your pet peeves?”, “What do you like to do for fun?” and “What is your idea of an ideal relationship?”.

Be a Good Listener

To have a good conversation, it is important that you listen as much as you speak. Let your guy speak, otherwise listening to you on the phone for 10 minutes or more without any contribution from his side may make him frustrated. Remember, if you have a lot to say, he may also have a lot of things to tell you. Let him talk too and you may find hundreds of reasons to call him again!

Be attentive to him

Be alert and reply to his questions. If he says something funny, laugh.  Do not give the impression that you could not get his joke or does not find it funny as this may offend him. Laughing together will help you to break the ice and if he is making you laugh, he will feel more at ease and conversing with each other will be much easier. 

Say Bye

Ending the conversation at its peak would be the best idea. By this way, you may leave him wanting to talk to you further and thus, increasing your chances of receiving a phone call from him. In case he doesn't seem to end the call, make a real or fake but believable excuse. The best time to say bye is the breaking point in the conversation. Use this time to politely end your conversation. Be patient and do not interrupt him or sigh loudly, as this makes you appear rude and may offend your guy.

                                 

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Why do house flies rub their front legs together?

 Flies sense their surroundings with the help of their eyes and bristles on their bodies and legs. The flies run their legs all over their body and wings to pick up the dust particles and then rub their legs together so as to clean the dust and dirt off their legs. Thus, by cleaning these stimulus receptors, they can have a better sense of feel and test receptors, they can have a better sense of feel and taste than with a dirty body.

                                     

How to Talk to Girls

Phone conversations are also considered the ideal informal setting for acquaintances to know each other without much pressure. It is important for a boy to learn the right way to talk over the phone so as to keep a girl interested at all times, but regrettably, several guys find it difficult to talk to a girl on the phone. The task is not as difficult as it is presumed by those who face fear.

There are no golden rules or secrets on how to talk to girls on the phone, though few of these tips will be handy for guys so that they don’t fumble while talking to a girl over the phone. Only thing you need to take care is to focus on the words you say and where you direct the conversation.

Instructions for Talking to a Girl

1. Beginning the Conversation: Your first step should be greeting her. Say hello, hi or hey to begin the conversation with. Thereafter, follow it by asking her about her day so far.

2. Calling on Purpose: There should be a purpose behind making the call. She will ask you for the reason to call up. Wasting her time by calling without a reason is a turn off.

3. Plan the Conversation: Plan it! It becomes quite easier to begin and stay in the conversation if you have an idea of going about it. Don’t presume all of it as most conversations don’t go as planned.

4. Listen Carefully: Give her a chance to say and listen. Listen carefully to what she says until she finishes. If you don’t have anything to contribute to the agenda you are in, just say ‘yeah’, ‘really’ and ‘okay’ to assure her that you are interested in the conversation.
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5. Smile: Smile often while communicating with a girl. It will reveal your cheerful side to her and also help you to attain an upbeat tone.

6. Your Attention Belongs to Her: While on phone with a girl, ensure that you are engaged in just one activity i.e. talking to her. Multitasking can distract you to lose track of the conversation. So, be attentive over the phone.

7. Follow-up Questions: Asking follow-up questions will keep your conversation alive. Don’t make a habit of questioning her on every single issue as that will annoy her at some point of time. She will feel that you are interviewing her instead of having a conversation. In addition to this, contribute your thoughts and ideas that are relevant to the discussion.

                

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